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You will be fine.

You will give birth in the same manner you live.

You and your partner will handle this challenge in the same way you handle every challenge in your life.

It’s as simple as that.

If you can handle a fight, an argument, a death in the family or a trip overseas, then your relationship will survive having children.

If you have problems in your relationship then you’ll have problems with having kids.

If you have a solid relationship, you will have a solid relationship after having kids.

You will need to sort out your problems with your partner whether you have kids or not.

If you need help with your relationship during having children then I recommend the following book.

THE MOTHER DANCE, How Children Change Your Life, “Adding a new family member is supposed to be a happy event, so people underestimate the profound stress of two people in one magical moment becoming three.” It’s no wonder that about 80% of new mothers experience some sort of mood disturbance, ranging from the baby blues to postpartum depression.

Help for couples SURVIVING the first year.